Premarital Counseling: The Ten B’s: Ways to Increase Sexual Intimacy through Couples Counseling.

So many couples don’t discuss important aspects of marriage until AFTER they’re married. Will you have children?  Will both of you work, or just one of you? Where will you live?  Who will be in charge of which chores? How much personal time will you give each other?  How do you both see finances in… Read More »

Money Fights! No Desire? Three Marriage Counseling Tips: Talk About Money for Increased Intimacy.

Have you been arguing about money?   Tired of different values and beliefs regarding too much work, or too little monetary safety? Isn’t it time to stop fighting, and start talking in a fair way? Fears regarding money, safety, security, and “what is enough”, have been happening for hundreds of years. It’s normal.   Circumstances can change… Read More »

Increase Sexual Intimacy Through Relationship Counseling: Three Tips for Passionate Monogamy

Tip One: Learn How to Get Through Boredom and the Normal Marital Knot Boredom happens, as it’s the primary fear of monogamy, a lack of newness. So don’t ignore it or let it get swept under the rug. Also, see boredom as normal feedback in your relationship, instead of believing sex is failing. It only… Read More »

Ten Signs You May Need Relationship Counseling

Haven’t there been times you wish that you’d attended marriage counseling? Not because you’re headed for divorce or going through a particularly difficult period either. When you have healthy and constructive conversation through relationship counseling, you can optimize a relationship! It’s not easy to recognize the subtle nuances of impending conflict, let alone possess the… Read More »

Relationship Shock: They’re NOT Happy! Seven Tips Relationship Counseling Gives You for Increased Intimacy, Sex, Happiness, and Connection.

Isn’t it a shock to hear that your marriage or relationship is NOT making your partner happy? Ouch! The sadness, grief, and hurt when you hear those words directed at you can be overwhelming, hopeless, and negative. What CAN be done? Research and intuition shows that relationships can lead to the highest highs and lowest… Read More »

Couples Counseling Refresher: Three Tips for Better Relationship Intimacy When You’ve Already Had Marriage Counseling

  When sex drops, or fights begin again, what do you do?  Isn’t it frustrating to admit the relationship needs more help?  Aren’t relationships “fixed” with a few sessions, years a go?       This is a normal experience of couples who slide back in to habits, and find there are somehow more fights, and little communication,… Read More »