The Enneagram of Personality: Test Your Self for Enhanced Sexual Intimacy in Relationship Counseling

Today I offer you a way you can further understand your self, and your partner, through taking a personality test, and learning about the enneagram of personality.    The Enneagram offers ways for you to grow your relationship with your self, and your partner, in some of the deepest ways I’ve discovered, as I’ve been… Read More »

Couples Communication: Tips on How to Take a Time Out, Calm a Heated Argument, and Increase Sexual Intimacy Later!

Relationships are not easy all the time. When you live with a person every day emotions can run hot. When we’re in such a hot emotional state and in an argument with our partner, it’s not so much fun. It’s hard to have a reasonable, calm, understanding, productive discussion under these emotional conditions. You will… Read More »

Happy Couples Secret Weapon: After a Big Fight, Gottman’s Repair Attempts for Increased Communication and Relationship Intimacy

John and Susan felt hopeless after their latest argument. As is usual, they went to their separate corners in the house to simmer down and get away from each other. When they started talking again, it wasn’t good, just short, cryptic words, not a very good connection. Both of them were hurting from ANOTHER big… Read More »

Ten Signs You May Need Relationship Counseling

Haven’t there been times you wish that you’d attended marriage counseling? Not because you’re headed for divorce or going through a particularly difficult period either. When you have healthy and constructive conversation through relationship counseling, you can optimize a relationship! It’s not easy to recognize the subtle nuances of impending conflict, let alone possess the… Read More »

Relationship Mismatch? Three Ways in Couples Counseling To Go Beyond Apparent Incompatibility For Increased Sexual Intimacy

Do you feel like on of you is from Mars, and the other from Venus? How could someone who was so romantic and similar become so distasteful and extremely different from you? Through relationship therapy uncover how personality, communication habits, and family history differences DON’T have to lead to relationship breakup. Learn the tools and… Read More »