Relationship Intimacy and the Enneagram: Resource or Stress Points on the Journey to Marriage Satisfaction

Have you wondered how to grow with the enneagram so you can feel more satisfaction in your relationship? In this article learn how to move in to your “resource point” so that your own integration from doing so can assist in relationship satisfaction. This resource point is where we can access some important quality that… Read More »

The Enneagram of Personality: Test Your Self for Enhanced Sexual Intimacy in Relationship Counseling

Today I offer you a way you can further understand your self, and your partner, through taking a personality test, and learning about the enneagram of personality.    The Enneagram offers ways for you to grow your relationship with your self, and your partner, in some of the deepest ways I’ve discovered, as I’ve been… Read More »

Money Fights! No Desire? Three Marriage Counseling Tips: Talk About Money for Increased Intimacy.

Have you been arguing about money?   Tired of different values and beliefs regarding too much work, or too little monetary safety? Isn’t it time to stop fighting, and start talking in a fair way? Fears regarding money, safety, security, and “what is enough”, have been happening for hundreds of years. It’s normal.   Circumstances can change… Read More »

Three Tips: How to Get Out of Conflict, and Communicate for Better Sex.

Why is it we conflict the most with those we love?  Are you interested in moving beyond survival ‘fight or flight’, to an improved relationship? Relationship research shows us that as we get more familiar with our partner, their normal irritating quirks, blind spots, and normal self-centeredness cause a predictable “knot” of marital fighting.  We… Read More »

Marital Therapy: Three Communication Tips for Healthier Relationship: Kids, Family, and Fun!

Are you fighting about the kids all the time? Wish you could communicate better with your partner so you could have better sex? These communication tips can offer you tools to resolve your problems in ways that lead to more intimacy. Tip 1 Acknowledge how fighting is not working and agree to try something different.… Read More »