The tragedy in Aurora, Colorado this summer hits home for all of us; grief, loss, and death can affect our life and our marriage relationship. We all go from shock, disbelief, anger, frustration, to feelings of “if only”, to normal feelings of depression. Then finally a relationship can get to a point of not blaming… Read More »
Grief and Loss of Relationship in Marriage Counseling: Tips to Work Through the Five Stages in the Relationship Breakup.
Haven’t we all felt the pit in our stomach, the disbelief it’s happening, feeling pissed off, calling up to get back together, and the sadness, when we go through the loss of a romantic relationship that we cared a lot about? Elizabeth Kubler-Ross wrote originally about these stages in terms of death, though they apply… Read More »
Three Tips on Senior Sexual Intimacy, Aging, and Retirement. Couples Counseling To Deepen The Fun, Sex, And Intimacy
So many see sex as just for youngsters. Hogwash! Infuse your sex with intimacy and watch how your relational life improves, especially as you age. Remember YOU HAVE EXPERIENCE! Let go of the expectation that physically active teenagers and twenty-somethings are in their sexual prime. You have wisdom, and experience, so remember to take your… Read More »
How To Begin Relationship Counseling in Denver or Boulder
What do you ask a therapist before beginning with them? How long does relationship counseling take? How much does it cost? Since 1992, these are the primary questions people have when they are considering relationship help with me. Generally, see if the counselor offers a free consultation, and then go! Many of my clients… Read More »