The tragedy in Aurora, Colorado this summer hits home for all of us; grief, loss, and death can affect our life and our marriage relationship. We all go from shock, disbelief, anger, frustration, to feelings of “if only”, to normal feelings of depression. Then finally a relationship can get to a point of not blaming… Read More »
Counseling and Rehabilitation for the Treatment of Porn Addiction. Three Therapist Tips for Stress Relief, Self-Soothing, Anxiety Treatment, and Increased Sexual Intimacy – Without The Pictures, Movies, or Laptop.
What is porn addiction? What do you do with the urge to look at beautiful women? How do you act on that normal instinct? Are your actions satisfying to you or do you feel less pleasure, and more intimacy problems, as time goes on? What if you could learn how to fully release the tension… Read More »
Marriage Counseling for Smart Phone, Texting, Email, Twitter, and Facebook Addictions. Three Tips For Better Intimacy, Sex, and Relationship Satisfaction.
In marriage counseling, and relationship psychotherapy, I have noticed my clients have issues with their partner being too busy texting, returning emails, and donning headphones, both at home and at work! Have you noticed with texting, email, mobile devices, and tablets, that we are more and more “alone together”, and not really enjoying relationship intimacy?… Read More »
Grief and Loss of Relationship in Marriage Counseling: Tips to Work Through the Five Stages in the Relationship Breakup.
Haven’t we all felt the pit in our stomach, the disbelief it’s happening, feeling pissed off, calling up to get back together, and the sadness, when we go through the loss of a romantic relationship that we cared a lot about? Elizabeth Kubler-Ross wrote originally about these stages in terms of death, though they apply… Read More »
Couples Counseling and Relationship Problems: Three Tips How to Balance Head, Heart, and Sexuality.
Do you notice how our culture asks us to stay in our heads for work, solving problems, and producing solutions? There’s so much anonymity, accessibility, and approximation with computers, and they solve problems fast. Then we head home and our intimate relationship asks us to “speak from the heart” with our partner, with so much… Read More »