The Enneagram of Personality: Test Your Self for Enhanced Sexual Intimacy in Relationship Counseling

Today I offer you a way you can further understand your self, and your partner, through taking a personality test, and learning about the enneagram of personality.    The Enneagram offers ways for you to grow your relationship with your self, and your partner, in some of the deepest ways I’ve discovered, as I’ve been… Read More »

Communication After a Time Out: Five Steps for “I Messages” to Repair and Fight Fairly Through Relationship Counseling

Good communication is necessary to repair when a fight has escalated and a time-out has been called.  When you come back together later to talk, “I” messages are an effective means to communicate because they maintain a respectful attitude towards your partner while you get to say how it is for you. Use an “I”… Read More »

Increase Sexual Intimacy Through Relationship Counseling: Three Tips for Passionate Monogamy

Tip One: Learn How to Get Through Boredom and the Normal Marital Knot Boredom happens, as it’s the primary fear of monogamy, a lack of newness. So don’t ignore it or let it get swept under the rug. Also, see boredom as normal feedback in your relationship, instead of believing sex is failing. It only… Read More »

Stop Complaining About Your Marriage Through Intimacy Counseling

Have you heard people complain about their marriage? Don’t we all at times? This article is how to move beyond the habit so you can calm your self down when needed, communicate effectively, and move towards greater intimacy. Remember that a complaint is when you’re talking negatively about someone, and not offering any solutions. For… Read More »

Relationship Shock: They’re NOT Happy! Seven Tips Relationship Counseling Gives You for Increased Intimacy, Sex, Happiness, and Connection.

Isn’t it a shock to hear that your marriage or relationship is NOT making your partner happy? Ouch! The sadness, grief, and hurt when you hear those words directed at you can be overwhelming, hopeless, and negative. What CAN be done? Research and intuition shows that relationships can lead to the highest highs and lowest… Read More »